In a reading for a single person, this card usually indicates the need for some serious heart-healing and shadow work before they are ready to move on and start dating again. Unless you acknowledge your present feeling-state, the relationship has no hope of mending. Relationship counselling would be a good next move. If this card comes up in a reading for a couple still living together, it could signify that someone is paying way too high a price for the presence of the other. Jealousy or power plays could have driven two lovers apart as this card signifies an element of loss and regret. Gemstones: Smokey quartz, amethyst and red jasperĮssential oils: Lavender, neroli and galbanum The 5 of Cups in Love & Relationships Amen and so it! Correspondences for the 5 of CupsĪrchangel: Gabriel, ruler of the Element of Water Help me be authentic about what I feel so I can heal fully from this grief and sadness. You got a diagnosis which changed your life expectancy… Life is full of these kinds of moments.ĭear Mother-Father God, thank you for helping me see that not all is lost. Loss, grief, disappointment, moving on from heartbreak. Or you realise you are stuck in a dead-end job. The Upright Meaning of Loss, grief, and emotional pain and Reversed Meaning of Acceptance, moving on, forgiveness makes the 5 of Cups a No. We must acknowledge our feeling-state before we can move on, no matter what kind of loss or disappointment we suffered. The lessons brought by the 5 of Cups (Mars in Scorpio) can be harsh lessons that generate deep pain and sorrow. Please understand that I’m not encouraging anyone to go into spiritual bypass. Gratitude is the quickest way to transform the energy of disappointment. If you find it difficult to shift out of pity mode, give thanks. All 5s relate to The Hierophant so the focus is on learning and lessons. So create the emotional release you need today (ask your heart what it needs) and focus on how to bring what you learned forward for the Highest Good. What you lost is for your learning not for pain to keep festering. If you’ve been crying over spilt milk, this is a sign that it’s time to move on.Īll you have to do is turn around and focus on the two upright cups. We all know wallowing is a waste of time. Yes/ No questions act as clarifiers for me, they never replace full spreads to look at the ins and outs of a situation.Are you feeling disappointed with how certain events have unfolded so far? The 5 of Cups shows up when it is time to let go of past disappointments. It's not perfect, but it works far more often than not. I avoid questions like: Does the fact I've not heard from Company X mean they are not considering me? (if the answer to that is "yes", I would then draw cards in a spread to see what I should do.) So for instance, if I'm wondering whether the company I contacted the other day will have a positive response, I will ask these kind of questions:ĭo I need to do anything else in order to obtain it? I always try and frame a yes/no question as clearly, and as positively, as I can. Star - Yes, but not immediately - needs time and healingĪll the Aces are yes, with varying degrees of speed.Ĩ of Coins - maybe, but will require a lot of effort to become a yesĩ of Wands - No and go away (often drawn when you've asked the question too often ) Temperance - Uncertain: will take some diplomacy Strength - Yes, but with some effort on your part, working with the other party if there is one Lovers - Maybe yes, maybe no - you get to choose! Hierophant - He knows and he'll tell you all in good time High Priestess - She knows but she's not telling But it does happen, and I have programmed my cards to reply yes/no/uncertain. I don't often ask tarot yes/no questions - I tend to keep those for Lenormand. Inspired by GoddessArtemis's thread, I thought I'd share my yes/no cards.
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